The Benefits Of Bad Temper Of Spouses


The Quran says: "O you who have believed, it is not lawful for you to inherit women by compulsion. And do not make difficulties for them in order to take [back] part of what you gave them unless they commit a clear immorality. And live with them in kindness. For if you dislike them - perhaps you dislike a thing and Allah makes therein much good". (The Quran, 4:19)

One righteous had an ugly wife. Besides, she was a quarrelsome nature and restive. Every day she quarrels and descend on the spouse with various insults. But the righteous suffered all this, and thus formed a habit of calmly to the daily scandals. The behavior of the wife he saw as a way of gaining of high morals and therefore didn't even think about divorce.

Friends of the man, perfectly knew about everything that happens in his family, greatly upset at the sight of women, spewing obscenities. Constant advises and guidances did not provide her any feedback. It reached the point that some friends of righteous began to pray to Allah that He took her soul.

The day came when something happened that meant, and this woman has left this world. Friends of the Holy declared this day a holiday, and quickly finished the rite of burial, joyful came to him and said:

"Dear friend! We come to you not to express condolences. Be glad you finally got rid of her!"

But holy righteous was calm and focused thought about something. On his face there was no trace of joy. On the contrary, he was upset, as if lost the expensive thing. And when he was asked about the reason for his condition, he made the following explanation:

"I'm really very upset today. This woman was my capital. With patience at her antics, I tried to find a high temper, which Allah be pleased with. So, I deserve a lot Savab and got a high spiritual power. But today my money was buried in the ground, and I just lost a great opportunity increase Savab".


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